Nowadays, babies dumping happening almost every day. According to Community, Family and Women Ministry baby dumping cases had already achieved to thousands per a year. Suddenly this problem has become as a big issue in Malaysia. Why this problem could happen? What had happened to our youths?
We can point our finger to anyone we want but this time we have to examine this social problem obviously. In my opinion, I think the lives of teenagers are too free without parent’s control. You can look what among of student did in campus or college. Some of them make a date try to do something as couple. Sometimes they make something further. Perhaps that “something” I shall call it as sumbang mahram. Every boy and girl has to know their limitation of relationship. Of course you can be friend with anyone but do not go too far when you be friend with the different gender. Islam teaches us about the relationship in Islam. Now, the girl must not wear the sexy clothes not because of order of people but this is order of Allah. We must follow Allah’s command and what had been written in Koran. Sexy girl dressing is one of cause why the banned relation could happen. It cans rise up the boys ‘desire and passions. That is why social problem could happen.
I think that the parents should take seriously role to prevent their son and daughter from social problem. Baby dumping could avoid if their children have awareness about the dangerous of baby dumping. It could ruin their future and kill in sinned baby.
The government should take role to overcome this problem. The government should introduce true Islam to the people especially to the Muslim youth about halal haram, paradise hell and dosa pahala. Islam scholars or known as ulama must take this responsibility to explain to the community about Islam and its rules.
The parents are also must control and minimize their children’s activities outdoor. They must know their children go out with who and where they go. The responsibility parent will avoid their children from unhealthy activity.
We could solve this social problem if we emphasis religious teaching on our children, control them carefully and always take care of them. I hope baby dumping in Islamic State like Malaysia will not happen anymore.
I'd have to agree that there are are much values in islam that has not been instilled in malaysian youths, which is much a pity. Parents out there should make extra effort in caring and raising their children into more sensible adults rather than just letting them explore and figure out on their own.
ReplyDeleteAs for youths themselves, they need to know that it's not about the act of sex. But rather they should know that they should be disciplined in loving themselves.